Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Niqab or face-veil in Islam

When the issue of Niqab/face-veil is discussed, some Muslims become apologetic, defensive and even go in to denial of this Islamic ruling of Niqab being wajib for women in front of non-mahram males.
Muslims dont need to be apologetic to the western or eastern Kuffar. We are proud of Islam and every thing in Islamic deen and culture. The Kuffar and Munafiqs will not accept Islam or even respect you as equals even if you compromise on their demands. They will keep demanding more till you follow their shameless and beastly way of life totally. The Quran says:

﴿وَلَن تَرْضَى عَنكَ الْيَهُودُ وَلاَالنَّصَـرَى حَتَّى تَتَّبِعَ مِلَّتَهُمْ﴾
“Never will the Jews nor the Christians be pleased with till you follow their Deen-Way of Life.” Quran (2:120)

“O you who believe! If you obey the Unbelievers, they will drive you back on your heels, and you will turn back (from Faith) to your own loss” Quran 3:149
 
 
Linguistic Meaning of word "Hijab":
"The root word of hijab is hajaba and that means: (hajb) to veil, cover, screen, shelter, seclude (from), to hide, obscure (from sight), to make imperceptible, invisible, to conceal, to make or form a separation (a woman), to disguise, masked, to conceal, hide, to flee from sight, veil, to veil, conceal, to cover up, become hidden, to be obscured, to vanish, to become invisible, disappear from sight, to veil, to conceal, to withdraw, to elude perception.Hajb: seclusion, screening off, keeping away, keeping off,Hijab plural: hujub: cover, wrap, drape, a curtain, a woman's veil, screen, partition, folding screen, barrier,Ihtijab: Concealment, hiddenness, seclusion, veildness, veiling, purdah.Hijab: Concealing, screening, protecting,
Mahjub: concealed hidden, veiled!
These definitions of the hijab were taken from the: Arabic-English Dictionary, The Hans Wehr dictionary of modern written arabic, edited by JM Cowan.

Quranic words on veil explained by Classical Masters of Arabic language:

"In the Arabic language of the Prophet, Jalbab is the outer sheet which covers the entire body. A piece of cloth which is too small to cover the entire body could not be called Jalbab." (Al Muhalla, vol. 3, p.217.)

The Tabi'ee, Qatadah (Rahimahullah), stated that the Jilbab should be wrapped and fixed from above the forehead and made to cover the nose, (although the eyes are to show) and the chest and most of the face are to be covered.
Jalabib, which is used in the verse is the plural of Jalbab. "Jalbab, is actually the outer sheet or coverlet which a woman wraps around on top of her garments to cover herself from head to toe. It hides her body completely." Lisan ul Arab vol 1 p. 273.
Ibn Masood (Radhiallaahu Ánhu) explained Jilbab to be a cloak covering the entire body including the face and hands. (fatwaa Ibn Taymiyyah Page #110 Vol. #2)

Hadith Proofs For Niqab -[covering of Face] :

Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 6, Book 60, Hadith # 282
Narrated Safiya bint Shaiba (Radhiallaahu Ánha) "Aisha (Radhiallaahu Ánha) used to say: "When (the Verse): "They should draw their veils over their necks and bosoms," was revealed, (the ladies) cut their waist sheets at the edges and covered their faces with the cut pieces.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 1, Book 8, Hadith # 368

Narrated 'Aisha (Radhiallaahu Ánha) Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) used to offer the Fajr prayer and some believing women covered with their veiling sheets used to attend the Fajr prayer with him and then they would return to their homes unrecognized .
"This hadith makes it clear that the Islamic dress is concealing of the entire body as explained in this hadith. Only with the complete cover including the face and hands can a woman not be recognized. This was the understanding and practice of the Sahaba and they were the best of group, the noblest in the sight of Allah (swt) with the most complete Imaan and noblest of characters. so if the practice of the women of the sahaba was to wear the complete veil then how can we deviate from their path?
Tirmidhi with a SAHIH chain reports...
"Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said “All of a woman is ‘awrah.”
This is a direct hadith from Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam ) and has made it clear that a woman must cover everything including the face and hands!
Abu Dawood Book 14, Hadith # 2482
Narrated Thabit ibn Qays (Radhiallaahu Ánhu): A woman called Umm Khallad came to the Prophet(Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) while she was veiled. She was searching for her son who had been killed (in the battle) Some of the Companions of the Prophet (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said to her: You have come here asking for your son while veiling your face? She said: If I am afflicted with the loss of my son, I shall not suffer the loss of my modesty. Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said: You will get the reward of two martyrs for your son. She asked: Why is that so, oh Prophet of Allah? He replied: Because the people of the Book have killed him.
Abu Dawood Book 32, Hadith # 4090
Narrated Umm Salamah, Ummul Mu'minin (Radhiallaahu Ánha): When the verse "That they should cast their outer garments over their persons" was revealed, the women of Ansar came out as if they had crows over their heads by wearing outer garments.
Abu Dawood Book 32, Hadith # 4091
Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin (Radhiallaahu Ánha) "May Allah have mercy on the early immigrant women. When the verse "That they should draw their veils over their bosoms" was revealed, they tore their thick outer garments and made veils from them.
Imam Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalanee, who is known as Ameer Al-Mu'mineen in the field of Hadith, said that the phrase, "covered themselves", in the above Hadith means that they "covered their faces". [Fath Al-Bari].
Imaam Malik's MUWATTA Book 20 Hadith # 20.5.16
Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn Urwa that Fatima bint al-Mundhir (Radhiallaahu Ánha)said, "We used to veil our faces when we were in Ihram in the company of Asma bint Abi Bakr As-Siddiq (Radhiallaahu Ánha). "
This again proves that not only the wives of Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) wore the Niqaab and that even though in Ihram women are not supposed to wear Niqaab but if men are there they still have to cover the face.
Abu Dawood Book 10, Hadith # 1829
Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: (Radhiallaahu Ánha) who said, "The riders would pass us while we were with the Messenger of Allah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam). When they got close to us, we would draw our outer cloak from our heads over our faces. When they passed by, we would uncover our faces.

Recorded by Ahmad, Abu Dawood and Ibn Majah, Narrated 'Aisha. [In his work Jilbab al-Marah al-Muslimah, al-Albani states (p. 108) that it is hasan due to corroborating evidence. Also, in a narration from Asma {who was not the wife of Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam)}, Asma also covered her face at all times in front of men.]
"This hadith indicates the compulsion of the concealing of the faces as an order of Shariah, because during the Ihram it is "wajib" (compulsory) NOT to wear the Niqaab. So if it was only mustahab (recommended) to cover the face then Aisha and Asma (Radhiallaahu Ánha) would have taken the wajib over the mustahab. It is well known by the Ullima that a wajib can only be left because of something that is also wajib or fardh. So Aisha and Asma (Radhiallaahu Ánha) covering the face even in Ihram in the presence of strange (ghairMahraam) men shows that they understood this to be an act that was wajib or fardh or they would not have covered the face in Ihraam.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 7, Book 72, Hadith # 715
Narrated 'Ikrima (Radhiallaahu Ánhu) narrates "Rifa'a divorced his wife whereupon 'AbdurRahman bin Az-Zubair Al-Qurazi married her. 'Aisha said that the lady (came), wearing a green veil."
It is a very long hadith but the point is the women of Sahaba wore the full veil.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 1, Book 8, Hadith # 347
Narrated Um 'Atiya (Radhiallaahu Ánha) We were ordered (by Rasulullah '(Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) to bring out our menstruating women and veiled women in the religious gatherings and invocation of Muslims on the two 'Eid festivals. These menstruating women were to keep away from their Musalla. A woman asked, "O Allah's Apostle ' What about one who does not have a veil ?" He said, "Let her share the veil of her companion."
"This hadith proves that the general norm amongst the women of the Sahaba (Radhiallaahu Ánhuma) was that no woman would go out of her home without a cloak, fully concealed and if she did not posses a veil, then it was not possible for her to go out. it was for this reason that when Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) ordered them to go to the Place for Eid Salah, they mentioned this hindrance. As a result Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said that someone should lend her a veil, but did not say they could go out without it. If Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) did not allow women to go to a place like the Eid Salah, which has been ordered by Shariah for women and men alike, then how can people let women to out to market places and shopping centers without where there is open intermingling of the sexes, without a veil.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 8, Book 76, Hadith # 572
In the end of this very long hadith it quotes Anas (Radhiallaahu Ánho) rates from Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) "and if one of the women of Paradise looked at the earth, she would fill the whole space between them (the earth and the heaven) with light, and would fill whatever is in between them, with perfume, and the veil of her face is better than the whole world and whatever is in it."
This show that even the women of Jannah have veils and the word veil is what covers the face (niqaab).
Abu Dawood Book 33, Hadith # 4154, Agreed upon by Nasai
Aisha(Radhiallaahu Ánha) narrates that on one occasion a female Muslim wanted to give a letter to the Holy Prophet (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam), the letter was delivered to the Holy Prophet (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) from behind a curtain.
Note: Quoted in the famous book Mishkaat. Here the Mufasereen of hadith have explained that the hadith where women came up to Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) face to face were before the ayah "And when you ask (his wives) for anything you want, ask them from behind a screen, that is purer for your hearts and for their hearts." (Surah Al­Ahzâb ayah # 53) And this hadith proves this order is for the whole Ummah not just for the wives of Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam)!
Abu Dawood Book 32, hadith # 4100
Narrated Umm Salamah, Ummul Mu'minin (Radhiallaahu Ánha): I was with Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) while Maymunah was with him. Then Ibn Umm Maktum came. This happened when we were ordered to observe veil. Rasulullah(Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said: Observe veil from him. We asked: oh Rasulullah! is he not blind? He can neither see us nor recognize us. Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) said: Are both of you blind? Do you not see him?
 
Niqab in Hanafi Fiqh:
 
Niqab is wajib according to the standard Hanafi view. See below for details:
 
 
Refutating those who say Covering Face is not Wajib:
Those who say that it is permissible to look at the face and hands of a strange woman (who is not mahrrum) say so mainly based on the hadeeth of Ayeshah (Radhiallaahu Ánha) when Asmaa (Radhiallaahu Ánha) the daughter of Abu Bakr came to the Rasulullaah (Sallallaahu Álayhi Wasallam) while wearing thin clothing. He approached her and said: 'O Asmaa! When a girl reaches the menstrual age, it is not proper that anything should remain exposed except this and this. He pointed to the face and hands. But this hadeeth is Daeef [WEAK] because of 2 main weaknesses.
  1. There is no link between Ayeshah (Radhiallaahu Ánha) and Khalid bin Dareek, who narrated the hadith from her. And in every chain of narrators Khalid bin Dareek is mentioned.
  2. In the chain of narrators Sa'eed bin Basheer appears, who is known by most of the Muhaditheen as being a weak narrator.
This has been mentioned by Imaam Ahmad bin Hanbal (Rahimahullah), An-Nasai (Rahimahullah), Ibn Madeeni (Rahimahullah) and Ibn Ma'een (Rahimahullah). This is also why Imaam Bukhari (Rahimahullah) and Muslim (Rahimahullah) did not except this hadeeth to be in their books.
We also have to see that the Muhadith Abu Dawood when he quoted this hadeeth put with it that it is Mursal (with a broken chain that does not lead up to the Sahabah).
 

Saturday, December 15, 2012

SECRETS OF SURAH AL-KAHF


Ever wondered why Prophet Muhammad(SAW) asked us to recite Surat Al-Kahf every Friday?
Let’s find out today inshaAllah…
This Surah has Four stories in it,having some morals,lets see them and understand what they are saying to us:

1) The People Of The Cave
Its the story of young men who lived in a disbelieving town, so they decided to migrate for the sake of Allah and run away. -Allah rewards them with mercy in the cave and protection from the sun - They woke up and found the entire village believers.
MORAL:TRIAL OF FAITH.

2) The Owner Of Two Gardens

A story of a man whom Allah blessed with two beautiful gardens, but the man forgot to thank the One who blessed him with everything and he even dared to doubt Allah regarding the afterlife. So His garden was destroyed - He regretted, but was too late and his regret did not benefit him .
MORAL:TRIAL OF WEALTH.

3) Musa(AS) and Khidr(AS)
When Musa(AS) was asked-“Who’s the most knowledgeable of the people of earth?”” Musa(AS) said:Me…, but Allah revealed to him that there’s someone who Knows more than him. Musa(AS) traveled to the man and learnt how the Divine Wisdom can sometimes be hidden in matters which we perceive as bad.
MORAL:TRIAL OF KNOWLEDGE.

4) Dhul-Qarnayn
Its a story of the great King that was given knowledge and power and was going around the world, helping people and spreading all that’s good. He was able to overcome the problem of Yajooj-Majooj and build a massive dam with the help of people whom he could not even understand.
MORAL:TRIAL OF POWER.

In the middle Allah mentions Iblees as the one who stirs these trials:
Behold! We said to the angels “Bow down to Adam”: they bowed down except Iblis. He was one of the Jinns, and he broke the Command of his Lord. Will ye then take him and his progeny as protectors rather than Me? And they are enemies to you! Evil would be the exchange for the wrongdoers!



Now let us see what’s the relationship between Surat Al-Kahf and the Dajjal (Anti-Christ)?

Dajjal will appear before Day of Judgement with the 4 trials:


***He’ll ask people to worship him and not Allah:
Trial of Faith .

***He’ll be given powers to start/stop rain and tempt people with his wealth:
Trial of with his Wealth. .

***He’ll try people with the “knowledge” and news he gives them:
Trial of Knowledge .

***He’ll control huge parts of the Earth.
Trial of Power .

How to survive these trials? The answers are in Surat Al-Kahf:

Survival Kit 1: Good companionship.
“And keep thy soul content with those who call on their Lord morning and evening, seeking His Face; and let not thine eyes pass beyond them, seeking the pomp and glitter of this Life; no obey any whose heart We have permitted to neglect the remembrance of Us, one who follows his own desires, whose case has gone beyond all bounds.” (Surat Al-Kahf, verse 28)

Survival Kit 2:
 Knowing the Truth of this World .
“Set forth to them the similitude of the life of this world: It is like the rain which we send down from the skies: the earth’s vegetation absorbs it, but soon it becomes dry stubble, which the winds do scatter: it is (only) Allah who prevails over all things” (Surat Al-Kahf, verse 45)


Survival Kit 3:
 Humbleness.
“Moses said: “Thou wilt find me, if Allah so will, (truly) patient: nor shall I disobey thee in aught.””(Surat Al-Kahf, verse 69)


Survival Kit 4:
 Sincerity.
“Say: “I am but a man like yourselves, (but) the inspiration has come to me, that your Allah is one Allah. whoever expects to meet his Lord, let him work righteousness, and, in the worship of his Lord, admit no one as partner.” (Surat Al- Kahf, verse 110)

Survival Kit 5:
 Calling to Allah .
“And recite (and teach) what has been revealed to thee of the Book of thy Lord: none can change His Words, and none wilt thou find as a refuge other than Him.” (Surat Al-Kahf, verse 27)


Survival Kit 6:
 Remembering the HereAfter .
“ One Day We shall remove the mountains, and thou wilt see the earth as a level stretch, and We shall gather them, all together, nor shall We leave out any one of them. And they will be marshalled before thy Lord in ranks, (with the announcement), “Now have ye come to Us (bare) as We created you first: aye, ye thought We shall not fulfil the appointment made to you to meet (Us)!”: And the Book (of Deeds) will be placed (before you); and thou wilt see the sinful in great terror because of what is (recorded) therein; they will say, “Ah! woe to us! what a Book is this! It leaves out nothing small or great,but takes account thereof !” They will find all that they did, placed before them: And not one will thy Lord treat with injustice.” (Surat Al-Kahf, verses 47-49)


Abu Darda' ~ may Allah be pleased with him ~ related that the Holy Prophet  said,
" One who memorized the first ten verses of Suratul Kahf will be secure against the Dajjal.
Another version says: "One who commits to his memory the last 10 verses of this surah will remain immune from the Dajjal. 

[Muslim]

Monday, December 10, 2012

Valimah immediately after the Nikah is permissible- Deoband

In the Indian sub-continent there are humble souls who have intentions of helping the girl's relatives by offering the valima on the same day of Nikah itself, (before the couple consummates). But there are many ignorant and greedy zealots who oppose this and compel the bride's relatives to offer lunch/dinner on the Nikah day and then the next day or later they demand valimah from the bridegroom. [they want two dinners!]

And all this is being done in the name of SUNNAH!!!



If we start following this system and valima is given by the bridegroom immediately after the nikah on the same day, then the expenditure and burden on the bride's family is decreased significantly. Also, the nikah and valima both should be done in a simple way and no need to call hundreds of people, only the closest family members and some poor people should be invited.

And remember, demanding directly or indirectly  from the bride's family for dinner on Nikah or to share in valima expenses is Haram and that food is Haram to eat as it not a duty of the girl's father to feed the guests, it is the boy's duty to arrange the dinner.

So, to save the time and money, the valima can be arranged immediately after Nikah by the groom.


I was searching for a fatwah on this topic. I could get this in urdu. 


It says it is PERMISSIBLE to do valimah by the Bride Groom immediately after the Nikah.

Here are the fatawa in urdu from Darul uloom Deoband and Darul uloom Shah waliullah




Saturday, December 8, 2012

Television, TeleDawah and Muslims

In the Lizard's Hole: Television, Televangelism and Muslims
By Khalid Baig
Posted: 1 Rabi ul-Thani,1432, 6 March 2011
When television was introduced in the middle of the 20th century, Muslim scholars nearly unanimously opposed it, just like the film before it. They were concerned about its potential social, cultural, and moral impact on the society. In the decades that followed their worst fears came true. Television everywhere caused unprecedented upheavals in the society, changing moral norms, corrupting social structures, and ushering an era of unabashed hedonism and materialism. After watching the destruction caused by the glamorous new toy in their societies for decades, and the apparently unstoppable momentum with which it surged forth, many concerned Muslims decided to do something about it; in increasing numbers they want to use it to promote Islamic teachings. After all when nearly everyone who can afford it --- and even many who cannot --- have a television in their home, how can you ignore it?
As a result today there are hundreds of “Islamic” channels broadcasting through terrestrial, cable, satellite, and Internet connections. Many have been there for a decade and many more keep coming up. To be sure television still remains a controversial subject in the Islamic world with a small and dwindling minority of scholars considering it impermissible. But for increasing numbers it is not only permissible but desirable to harness this medium to serve the cause of Islamic dawa and education. Some may even say it is a sacred duty.
Underlying this push is an unexamined assumption that television is just a tool that can be used with equal facility in the service of good or evil. Thus the problems caused by television were caused solely because it was in the wrong hands and the only thing we need to counter those problems is have more broadcast power in the right hands. With television signals potentially reaching millions of people, we can preach to and educate such vast numbers as had never been possible before.
Those who are in the opposing camp have only been concerned with a technical issue of the definition of tasweer (picture). Does it violate Islamic prohibition of making and displaying pictures of living things? Or does the definition not extend to pictures on the screen because unlike the ones on paper they are not permanent? The bigger issues of the nature and built in proclivities of the medium itself have unfortunately not entered the debate. But is it possible that visual communication is not just an extension of the aural communication as assumed but an entirely different animal? That the medium itself may be good for some purposes and entirely unsuitable for others? That a serious message like Islamic teachings may be trivialized and distorted by it?
Words and Pictures
Television reflects the idea that serious discourse can be carried out through pictures instead of words. While pictures can sometimes be used in a written document or in a live presentation, their role there is a subordinate one. On television, the picture is the centerpiece. It dominates and controls the entire communication and everything else is subordinate to it. Now words and pictures do not occupy the same universe of discourse. A piece of writing requires one to go beyond the shape of the letters to read them. It requires thought to understand what is being said. To concentrate on a critical idea we sometimes close our eyes or even when they are open we pay no attention to what is visible. We develop insights by opening our inner eyes, so to speak, and turning away from the sights. But in the presence of television you cannot close eyes or ignore what is in front of them. Before you can begin to think deeply about an idea, there is another eye-catching picture on the screen to distract you. Thus television does not only not require reflection; it does not even permit it. With beautiful imagery and a continuous display of dazzling pictures it shuts off our ability to engage in deep thoughts. That is why little children can spend hours in front of the mini screen but get tired very quickly after looking at a picture-less page of text. The disability to think and process textual information is increased with continued watching. Therefore generations nurtured on television have such a short attention span. Television can titillate, it cannot teach. It appeals to the emotions, not the intellect. It can bring images into our heart, not ideas into our mind (1).
In a live lecture people look at the speaker from time to time. They do not constantly gaze at him. And even when they are looking it is not the details of his appearance that interest them. The power of a close up shot does not enter the picture, so to speak, when you are addressing a live audience. That is why speakers do not go to makeup artists before their speaking assignments. Neither is there a need to go to great lengths to decorate the stage and podium to engage the audience’s attention. A person who is not telegenic may still be a very successful speaker. His words and not his picture are of interest as they should be in any genuine communication. Not so with television where the basic rules of communication are turned upside down. Here appearances and images are the king. Ideas and arguments are of secondary importance.
It is the purpose of this article to examine the result of these differences in light of actual experience with use of television for religious programs in the Christian and Muslim worlds. The question we ask is how television has influenced the religious discourse in the two communities.
There are two reasons for looking at the Christian experience. First the Christian world, especially in the US, has been much ahead of the Muslim world in its use of television. While Muslims came to it after several decades, Christians were at it from the first day ---since the 1950s. Their preoccupation with it gave rise to the term televangelism, which refers to the use of television for evangelism or spreading Christian faith. Second, many Muslim broadcasters are following in the footsteps of the televangelists, whether their audiences realize it or not. It is important to see what the televangelists did and what were the results of doing that. That may tell us what is in store for us if we continue blindly on their trail.
The Televangelists
Televangelists like Billy Graham, Oral Roberts (d. 2009), Jimmy Swaggart, Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker, Jerry Fallwell, Pat Robertson, and Robert Schuller built broadcast empires whose budgets and audiences ran into millions. As early as 1957 the television programs of Oral Roberts were reaching 80% of the possible television audience in the US. Around the same time Billy Graham boasted that in a single telecast he preached to millions more than Christ did in his lifetime.
How did they do it? By carefully studying and implementing marketing strategies and techniques used by successful commercial television programs. They copied formats, set designs, themes, even musical tunes thereby attracting worshippers to a feel-good Christianity that provided great entertainment while demanding little other than donation dollars. As Reverend Johan Tangelder notes, “Christian television ministry exists within the context of North American culture. In this culture even religion has become a recreational pursuit.”
Television was particularly suited for this transformation because of its need for communication through pictures and its inability to handle abstractions, in depth arguments and any thing requiring reflections. You can certainly place a camera in front of a scholar engaged in some serious discourse, but it is highly unlikely for such a program to have mass appeal. To succeed in building and holding a large audience, you need to constantly attract its members through eye-catching visuals and learn to speak in sound bites. This is even more important because of the setting in which television operates since the next really entertaining program is just a tap on the remote or even a flick of the wrist away.
Persona
Advertisers know that the most popular programs on television take the form of a movie. That is why even a thirty second commercial is a carefully crafted miniature movie with a problem, a climax and then a resolution that is obtained by using the products being peddled. To compete against this the televangelists knew they had to have a better ‘movie’. In that movie the preacher became the hero – the object of viewer adoration, the centerpiece of the entire plot. “Like Hollywood or show business generally, televangelism relies extensively on public persona,” writes Quentin J. Schultze in Televangelism and American Culture (2). It was the persona of the preacher whose own image and personality dominated the show. People turned to the show to watch their favorite star in action, rather than to listen to a lecture.
Talk Show Format
The successful televangelists also borrowed formats and styles from the entertainment world. Schultze notes that Robertson, Bakker, and Crouch started their talk-pray-sing formula in imitation of the talk shows of Johnny Carson and Merv Griffin. Schuller incorporated a variety show format in his programs. This included guest stars from Hollywood and sports, airy shots of the interior of his Crystal Cathedral, serene images of the outdoor fountains, and majestic skyward pictures of the glass cathedral. Not to be left behind, Swaggart’s “old fashioned” revivalism (as it was named) bore the marks of contemporary variety shows with the cameras alternating between shots of the excited audience and those of the performers. The net result: “The revivalist or evangelist [became] a talk-show host, a variety-show emcee and above all a performer.”
Health and Wealth Gospel
Further, television’s demand for action and drama found a good match in the old art of the faith-healer and those talking in tongues. Thus quite expectedly many of the most successful televangelists made full use of these practices. This even impacted Christian theology by giving rise to the health and wealth gospel, which held that God wants everyone to be healthy and wealthy and the only thing needed to achieve this was to make an offering to the televangelist. To convince the audiences their programs regularly showcased “miracles” performed by the televangelist. A destitute person becoming wealthy, a terminally sick person becoming healthy, all through the power of the prayer of the host whose favors extend to anyone who believed in his gospel and made contributions to his ministry.
Power of Drama
Television is the ideal medium for drama and televangelists made full use of it. They were true masters of this art. The power of drama --- and their mastery of it--- can be seen in the repentance of Swaggart who had been caught in a sexual scandal involving a prostitute. This, after he had been exposing the sexual scandals of rival televangelists for some time. Quite naturally it was a big shocker but after a few months of not knowing what to do, he finally came up with a brilliant solution. He recorded a one-hour program in his church admitting unspecified sins and focusing on Christian forgiveness. Shots of a crying Swaggart with tears rolling down his face were alternated with those of heart broken congregants who suffered with him. At the end of the show came the resolution of this carefully orchestrated drama: Swaggart hugging and crying with individual supporters, who clearly had forgiven him.
The Result: Religion in the Entertainment Marketplace
Using the full capabilities of the medium in masterly manner televangelists certainly attracted huge audiences. But what was its impact on those audiences? According to Christian critics it was not the promotion of Christianity as it was known before the advent of television. The audiences were attracted and held though the lure of entertainment, which is the “supra ideology” of television as Neil Postman said. Schultze notes that televangelism promoted a new religion whose pillars were selfishness, individualism, and materialism --- not to mention superstition in the form of the health and wealth gospel (3).Some would call it the ultimate blasphemy. In Richard F. Collman’s words “The ultimate blasphemy of a consumerist culture is its desire to consume God”(4). This is what happens when religion is sold in the entertainment marketplace.
The effect was not limited to the television program only. After being conditioned by entertainment in the name of religion, people started expecting it everywhere. There was a demand for the church to be like the television program and the local preacher to ape the performance of the favorite televangelist. Schultze noted that congregations accustomed to TV were more easily bored by routine, less likely to follow a lengthy or complicated sermon, and visually tuned to the preacher. In short, as Neil Postman would say, it was not that religion became the content of television but that television shows were becoming the content of religion (5).
Muslim World
We can now turn to the scene in the Muslim world. Could the same thing happen there? Many Muslims would dismiss this suggestion by arguing that the problems were rooted in Christianity not television. Revivalism was dominated by entertainers before the advent of even radio. The health and wealth gospel had historic roots in Christian theology. Such distortions are unthinkable in Islam, where both the Qur’an and Hadith are well preserved and Shariah limits are well defined. Here we can enjoy the promise of television, with huge audiences, without the perils experienced elsewhere.
While certainly there are differences of day and night between Islam and Christianity in terms of the preservation of the source texts and the historic continuity of its dogma, the propensities of television as a medium are the same. And their impact on those who submit to it cannot be different. This is what Marshal McLuhan told us through his aphorism that has become a cliché, that the medium is the message (6). That television will not just communicate but shape and distort the message it is carrying. It will mold it in its own image. By moving the religious discourse to the world of entertainment, it will make religious authority irrelevant.
A critical look at what has been happening in the world of Islamic television may be sobering.
The Amr Khaled Phenomenon
The person who attained phenomenal success with Islamic programs on television is undisputedly Amr Khaled of Egypt. An accountant turned lay preacher, his official resume is full of large numbers. Thousands, hundreds of thousands, millions. On facebook more than two million “like” him. His television program is seen by millions. He lists the audience size in the gatherings he has addressed during the past decade. 20,000 here, 40,000 there. Like the televangelists he can bask in the glow of an unprecedented popularity. There is no other Islamic television host that comes close.
How did he do it? Exactly the way the televangelists had done.
Amr Khaled rose to stardom in 2001 with the appearance of his show “Kalam min al-Qalb” (Words from the heart) on satellite. His producer Abu-Haibah was very impressed with televangelists saying, “if we did this with Islam it would be a new experience for Islam.” Their stated goal was to make Islamic media “not just as good, but much, much more interesting than the most interesting programs on other channels.”
They did whatever it takes to become more interesting than the vulgar commercial fare. They chose a set that had no relation to Islam, rather it would be “something that will feel like a top-ten [music] program.” They invited celebrities, many of them former film stars who had gone through the coming-back-to-Islam experience. (It was a carefully calibrated conversion where they started wearing a headscarf without stopping a public display of beauty --- makeup and all). Amr Khaled wore expensive European suits and a clean shave. The format was that of a talk show and the level of the talk was the same.
“Not a Shaikh”
Amr Khaled frequently says that he is not a shaikh or a religious scholar. What is left unsaid is even more important: “And you do not need a shaikh. I am much much more entertaining and accommodating.” For otherwise he feels fully qualified to challenge any tenets of Islam or give his personal opinions on any subjects. He stated, for example, that Shaytan was a believer, because of his conversation with Allah as reported in the Qur’an. He justified mixed gatherings of men and women using the incident about Syedna Umar’s acceptance of Islam. He belittled such towering personalities as Imam Malik. In the case of blasphemous cartoons of the Prophet, Sall-Allahu alayhi wa sallam, he stood against a united Muslim stand, taking a position that was childish if not sinister. Under normal circumstance these would be considered sufficiently scandalous to end the career of a preacher, but his audiences still love him. They would find some excuse for the aberrant statements and move on. They do so not because he has made major breakthroughs in Islamic scholarship or statesmanship but because he is so entertaining. His style and his content find perfect resonance with the medium.
“Better” Packaging for Islam
There are others who have copied the Amr Khaled technique --- with the same great results. In Saudi Arabia it is Ahmad al-Shugairi, who started as a TV host for Yalla Shabab (Hey Youth) program and moved on to his own Ramadan program called Khawater or stray thoughts. He is very popular with the youth who credit him, just like the fans of Amr Khaled, with bringing them back to Islam. His philosophy is that of a Procter and Gamble marketing manager: “Islam is an excellent product that needs better packaging.” This packaging includes a glitzy studio, lighting, panning between him and his devoted audience, the music montage introducing the show, and soothing sound bites that offer a feel good Islam. In short everything demanded by the entertainment world. In an interview with On the Media he explains his winning strategy of not focusing more than 20-30 seconds on the same frame.
In this marketing-driven preaching, the goal is to give the audiences what they want (It is a minor detail that the entire purpose of dawah is to give people what they need). A fan told the New York Times: “Ahmad helped me see that I can want to be with a girl, and it’s O.K. — I don’t need to feel bad.” According to the report the fan Muhammad Malaikah was able to spend time alone with his girlfriend and still feel he was being true to himself and his culture (7).
Paradise Here and Now
Yet another star in the kingdom of Islamic television is Mostafa Hosni of Egypt. The set for his weekly program looks like that of a pop music show, with the name, Love Story, drawn over a big purple heart in the background. "The time has come to speak to the young in their language, to live in their world," he says. This is the language of the entertainment media. He opened the first episode of his show ‘Ala bab al-ganna (At the Gates of Paradise) by bringing paradise to a screen near you. Using a studio set that reflected his visualization of paradise in front of a mixed-gender studio audience, he told viewers that tuning into this program would help “transform Paradise from merely an invisible dream to a daily reality.” This is precisely what the entertainment media doctors had ordered. Never mind that Islamic teachings for centuries have praised the believers for believing in an unseen paradise. The Qur’an opens with the statement that it is guidance for those who believe in the unseen. But television cannot deal with the unseen; it cannot communicate without pictures. And so the tenets of the most iconoclastic belief are now to be communicated visually. Although for obvious reasons he cannot present it as a new theology in Islam, his scheme would be the envy of any proponent of the health and wealth gospel.
All about Fun
These are glimpses of some of the most successful “Islamic” television programs --- if success is defined by number of viewers. All of them rely heavily on visual stimulation, aim at providing entertainment, avoid serious talk, depend upon the persona of the hosts who are telegenic and charismatic, shun religious authority, and encourage individualism and consumerism. They aim to provide not a break with the profane programs that saturate television everywhere but a seamless connection.
There is another interesting feature to be noted here. All of the hosts mentioned above had led sinful lives and then had a conversion – of sorts. Their fans say that they love them for this reason also that they had not always been pious. This comment --- made in interviews with reporters--- calls for reflection. Sinful people have always repented and many of them went ahead and became great scholars in Islamic history and became a source of guidance to others. People were attracted to them because of their current knowledge not their past ignorance. This is the first time that the past sinfulness of a preacher is being touted as a qualification. The real reason may be that it makes for an interesting storyline. A person who has no colorful past to repent from would make a dull host. As would be the person who had completely switched to an Islamic life style, which is often referred to as boring by the organizers and fans of these programs. Imagine Amr Khaled sporting a beard, wearing Arabic dress, displaying Islamic mannerism, and deferring to the real scholars, saying ‘I do not know’ or ‘I need to consult a scholar’ regarding questions that are beyond his limited Islamic education. It is a safe guess that such a transformed Amr Khaled would be a flop despite his fabulous communication skills. For that would remove all the fun. And for the mass audiences that we are talking about here Islam on television just like Christianity on television is all about fun.
Other Islamic Television Channels
While not all the Islamic television programs have gone to the extremes outlined above, we can see features of these most successful programs in others as well. Consider QTV, a prominent channel in the Pakistan/India market. Its attractions include female na’t singers in colorful costumes, ignorant and confused youth sorting out their problems themselves, talk shows that center around celebrations, and question and answer sessions where laxity outweighs authenticity. Celebrate, sing, have fun. And remember this great religious entertainment is brought to you by the same company that also brings the openly secular entertainment.
One feature that one can see across the board is the use of music. Through constant exposure we have been so programmed that few people ask why, say, a news program on television opens and closes and is punctuated with music. Postman observed that music is there “for the same reason music is used in the theatre and films --- to create a mood and provide a leitmotif for the entertainment" (8). One hoped that at least those who were producing Islamic religious programs would have the sense to see the gravity of the situation where both seriousness and sacredness of the program are under attack by music. One would hope in vain. For, by and large Islamic programs of all persuasions on television have submitted to this commandment of the entertainment world. Music has become such an integral part of all television that most people do not even notice that there is something terribly wrong here. The same people would consider it unthinkable to allow a serious talk in the masjid or even a lecture hall to open with music. But they are perfectly at ease when that enormity is produced on the mini-screen.
In programs which apparently deal with serious topics, the preferred format is to have a debate. As far as television is concerned every topic is debatable. Or else it is not televisable. Controversies and exchanges enliven a program and serious talks drive away viewers. Therefore even the most fundamental and agreed upon principles have to be opened up to debates. It helps if in the debate a scholar is paired with a person who has no religious education but who is a smooth talker and who can air his or her ignorance eloquently and attack the former. This is the way to increased ratings and fatter bottom lines and so it is used regularly in the “Islamic” programs on mainstream commercial channels.
A tendency toward sensationalism also comes with the territory. Zakir Naik’s mention of Yazeed with the words of blessing (i.e. “May Allah be pleased with him”) may have been an inadvertent reflection of the same tendency. While the gaffe occurred in 2007, the hot debates on rival Islamic television channels continued for several years with sparks flying and fatwas of kufr being pronounced with great zeal. No doubt such tendencies have always been there. But their destructive power is magnified manifold on television.
Impact on the larger Islamic Discourse
The Amr Khaled phenomenon is a reflection of the sea-change in our idea of an Islamic discourse caused by our adjustment to television.
Entertainment
Certainly the adjustment started before Amr Khaled came on the scene, although he and others like him may have accelerated it. Its most important aspect is its penchant for entertainment. First television demanded that even the most serious discourse should meet the entertainment test. Then people started demanding the same entertainment in real life as well. This is exactly what happened in the church, where church programs and even church architecture was molded to conform to the requirements of television. And it is now happening in the masjid as well. One can see it in some Friday khutbahs in north America (and probably elsewhere) where the speakers try to tell a joke to enliven the audience. Little do they realize that it is a solemn occasion and the khutbah is an act of worship at the same level as the salat that follows it. Worse, the audiences now expect to be entertained. Many times they burst into laughter during religious sermons because they think the speaker was saying something funny when the poor speaker had no such idea.
There are other signs of change in our entertainment seeking audiences. They like the easy talk that does not emphasize the Hereafter, include admonitions, and mention prohibitions. Their ability to process verbal information --- to listen and reflect---- is diminishing as they lean toward more visual communication. To accommodate that conferences and mosques now increasingly have large video screens installed. In youth conferences, entertainment and music are considered an indispensable part.
Lights, Cameras, Action
At new popular Islamic conferences, which are huge crowd pullers, the stage setting follows the path of the televangelists. It is a panorama of light and color and stage designs taken straight from any popular television program. Multiple booms carrying video cameras constantly move throughout the speech and alternate between the shots of the speaker from various angels and those of the audience. This is simply in obedience to the dictate of television for action. Since the speaker stands at one place (at least so far) the elaborate camera arrangement has to be made to provide motion and action. Sometimes the talks are good. But they are so out of place with the environment in which they are delivered.
Mixing the Sacred with the Profane
Another indicator of change is in our adjustment to the ads that appear on free Islamic websites and Internet televisions. There are Islamic television programs on the Internet devoted to Qur’anic recitation, Hadith study or other Islamic talks. Suddenly a semi-nude picture of a woman appears on the screen who is selling something. A note from the site owners explains: “The ads make it possible to bring the program free of charge to you. We do not control the content of the ad.” Apparently that satisfies most viewers or the sites would have stopped this practice of mixing the sacred with the profane. It is like distributing free milk after mixing it with urine as a condition for free distribution. The greater tragedy is that no one complains about this contaminated milk. This again shows how our perceptions and attitudes are influenced by the media. For no one would have accepted its equivalent in the older medium of books. (A book containing Qur’an or Hadith lessons distributed free with the help of such ads.)
The Real Promise of the “Televangelists”
These “televangelists” have been cheered by the pundits. Time magazine declared Amr Khaled to be the 13th most influential person in the Arab world. (Readers are not privy to the calculations that lead to these ratings; there may be an underlying hope that reporting it to be so may make it so). Major radio, television, and print media outlets have run laudatory stories about all of them. The hype is not without reason. They see the big promise of these televangelists in “making it increasingly difficult for any single interpretation of Islam to hold sway over others” (9). In other words in the destruction of scholarly authority as lay preachers with little knowledge of Islam occupy positions of authority through the magic of television. They become celebrities not through knowledge and piety, as had been the case for all these centuries, but through their mastery of the medium. This change in epistemology, in our ways of learning about religion, this is the most catastrophic result of our love with television and our acceptance of the idea that television can be a serious source for learning about Islam. This is more damaging than distortions in particular doctrinal or legal issues introduced so far by the successful televangelists.
This is the problem faced by Christianity and it is exactly the same problem now facing the Muslims. Which should remind us of the following hadith:
Abu Sa'id al-Khudri reported that Allah’s Messenger Sall-Allahu alayhi wa sallam, warned: "You will tread the same path as was trodden by those before you inch by inch and step by step so much so that if they entered into a lizard's hole, you would follow them in this also. We said, 'Allah's Messenger, do you mean the Jews and Christians before us?' He said, 'Who else?'" (Sahih Muslim, Chapter 3, Book 34, No 6448)
On the surface the Muslim televangelists are the harbinger of an Islamic revival, especially among the youth. In reality they may be hijacking the Islamic revival that is occurring because of the disenchantment of the masses with all non-Islamic avenues. They appear to be catering to the needs of the wayward; in reality they may be creating a permanent place for acceptable waywardness and making it respectable. They appear to be creating the thirst for Islamic knowledge among people who were far away from it; in reality their popular entertainment programs are quenching that thirst with contaminated beverage labeled as energy drink.
What should be done?
Both the power and the prevalence of television make it very difficult to suggest easy solutions to the problems caused by it.
At the same time we must not underestimate the destructive power of television. Television did not cause all the upheavals in society by being ineffective. Rather the above only highlights its ineffectiveness in carrying a serious discourse. But it is a very effective tool for carrying propaganda. Since television appeals to emotions not intellect, it can be easily used to stir up emotions of, say, hate and anger --- something that has been used effectively by the Islamophobes in the Christian world and beyond. Some televangelists have played a major role in the rise in Islamophobia in the US through their media crusade against Islam.These also cannot be ignored in our discussion of television policies.
Obviously simple yes or no answers cannot work. Just ignoring television will not reduce the destruction it is causing in the society. Jumping on to the bandwagon and starting Islamic television programs to reach the large audiences without careful analysis and planning will only perpetuate the problems that have been outlined above. Due to the nature of the medium, if it is given legitimacy as the venue for Islamic teachings, then in time alim and mufti actors will replace the real alims and muftis as is already happening. They will also set the expectations for what the real alims should look like and behave.
There is no ready made solution. The real solution will be the outcome of a rigorous and ongoing discussion involving the scholars, thinkers and the media experts and will require first that we do fully understand the nature of communication in the video world and its peculiar problems.
TV Free Home
The solution they come up with will be a multi-faceted one and will vary with the circumstances of the person. For an individual the prime goal is just to protect him and his family. For this the message should be that the less you watch, the better it is. An atmosphere is to be created in which not watching television and maintaining a TV free home is a perfectly respectable and even desirable option. Grass roots organizations and all means of persuasion should be used to promote this idea. Such an organization exists in the US (10). It is a pity that it does not exist in the Muslim world.
The success of this campaign will not be measured just by how many stop watching but also by what they think about watching it. The objective should be that those who do not have a TV free home should look up to those who do and not the other way around. Declaring Ramadan as a TV free month, where participants pledge to keep television off during Ramadan and use the time so saved to benefit from Ramadan may go a long way towards this objective.
Alternative Channels of Communications
At the same time we need to develop the non-television channels of communication to the best of their potential. In the communication landscape, television is one option. It is not the only one. It is expensive and it is fraught with serious problems in its ability to transmit our message. Even if we cannot avoid it, we do need to put it in its proper place. This means we do need to rethink the older avenues. Friday khutbahs are a case in point. They offer an immense resource for educating the masses. Everywhere Muslims turn in large numbers to them and there are no production or distribution costs like those associated with TV. Unfortunately this priceless opportunity is wasted because the great majority of those speaking have not been prepared for the task. They either do not have an understanding of how to relate Islamic teachings to the problems of today or do not know how to communicate that effectively. As a result most attendees go without any expectation of enlightenment through the khutbah. Squandering of this tremendous opportunity has no excuse. It is a pity that Islamic religious schools have, by and large, failed to step up to the responsibility to have special training programs for speakers and guiding the khateebs.
 
The Okaz Market Model
What about using television itself?
We may learn from the Prophetic Example in the souq of Okaz, the largest and the most famous of the annual markets and fairs of the Jahliya period. There pilgrims from all of Arabia gathered for business, poetry competitions, networking and entertainment. When the opposition of the Quraish to the Prophet, Sall-Allahu alayhi wa sallam, increased to a point where continued call to Islam within Makah was not possible, he sought all avenues outside to continue his mission. This included his visits to Okaz. The purpose of the visits was to meet the people and pull them out. The place of training and education was Dar Arqam.
Using that model as our guide, we may make a case for reaching out to the people who are today in the Okaz market created by television. That is we must not confuse it with the masjid, or school, or Dar Arqam. The purpose should be to pull the people out from there to these places where real worship, education, and training can take place. Recognizing the peculiar problems of this new venue, we must make sure the programs avoid all the pitfalls outlined above. No run for ratings. No entertainment. No music. No celebrity culture. No expectation of a return on investment. No competition with the commercial world. No ads that can dilute or counter the message. In other words no distortion in the message in exchange for a large audience.
The numbers who respond will be small, just as they were in Okaz. But just as the Prophetic example in Okaz showed, delivering the pure unadulterated message to a small number is infinitely superior to delivering a distorted message to the millions.
Notes:
1. Taken from Understanding Television, http://www.albalagh.net/general/tv.shtml.
2. Quentin J. Schultze, “Televangelism and American Culture: The Business of Popular Religion”, (Michigan, Baker Book House: 1991) 32.

3. Quentin J. Schultze, “Televangelism and American Culture: The Business of Popular Religion”, (Michigan, Baker Book House: 1991) 132
4. Richard F. Collman, “The Tyranny of the Familiar: Critical Reflections on the
Church Growth Movement,” The American Organist 19:3 (March 1995), p. 39.
5. Neil Postman, Amusing Ourselves to Death, (New York: Viking, 1985) 124.
6. Marshal McLuhan, Understanding Media, Routledge, (London: Routledge, 1964)
8. Neil Postman, Amusing Ourselves to Death, (New York: Viking, 1985) 102.
9. Dale F. Eickelman and Jon W. Anderson, eds., New Media and the Muslim World: The
Emerging Public Sphere, 2nd ed. (Indiana University Press, 2003)
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Monday, December 3, 2012

Severing Relationships is a major sin! by Imam Dhahabi RA


Severing the Ties of One's Relatives

Taken from 'Al Kabair' of Imam Dhahabi RA

[Major sin number- 9]

Allah, the Most High, says in the Quran,

1.{Fear Allah, through Whom ye demand your mutual (rights) and be heedful of the wombs.} (An-Nisa:1)

2.{Then it is to be expected of you, if you were put in authority, that you will do mischief in the land, and break your ties of kith and kin: Such are the men whom Allah has cursed for He has made them deaf and blinded their sight.} (Muhammad: 22-23)

3.{Those who fulfill the covenant of Allah and fail not in their plighted word; those who join together those things which Allah hath commanded to be joined, hold their Lord in awe, and fear the terrible reckoning.} (Ar-Ra'd: 20-21)

4.{He causes many to stray, and many He leads into the right path,. But He causes not to stray, except those who forsake (the path), those who break Allah's covenant after it is ratified, and who sunder what Allah has ordered to be joined, and do mischief on earth: Those cause loss only to themselves.} (Al-Baqarah: 26-27)

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The Prophet (pbuh) said,

1."He who severs his family ties will not enter Paradise.”Reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.

Thus, whoever abandons his relatives, is proud over them and disdains to support the needy if he is rich is included in this punishment unless he repents to Allah the Most Exalted and treats them well. 

It was related that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said,

2."Whoever has poor relatives and does not treat them well and pays his charity to others and neglects them, Allah does not accept his charity and will not look to him on the Day of Judgment.” Reported by Al-Mundhiri.

3.The Prophet (pbuh) said,

"Wet your wombs (relationships) even by just greeting.”

lbn Hajar AI-Hathami mentioned it in Majma' Al-Zawa'id and said it is reported by Al-Bazzar.

4.The Prophet (pbuh) also said,

"Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should maintain good relationship with his kin.”
Reported by AI-Bukhari. 

5."A person who reciprocates in doing good is not the one who joins his blood relations generously,' but he is the one who joins with his blood relations when they cut (the relationship) with him.”
Reported by AI-Bukhari.

6."Allah Almighty says, "I am the Merciful and it is the womb i.e. blood relation. I will hold by him who hold by it; and I will cut asunder from him who cuts asunder from it.”
Reported by At- Tirmidhi

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Ali Ibn AI-Husain, may Allah be pleased with him, said to his son, "O son do not befriend he who severs the ties of his kin since I have found him cursed in Allah's Book three times." 

One day, Abu Hurairah [RA], May Allah be pleased with him, sat to deliver a lesson about the people's tradition? Then, he said, "I hope that anyone of you who severs the ties of his kins to leave us." A young man sitting at the end of the circle left. The young man went forward to his aunt whom he did not visit for years and reconciled her. His aunt asked him: "Why did you come, my nephew?" He said, "When I sat to listen from Abu Hurairah, the prophet's companion, he said, "I hope anyone of you who severs the ties of his kin to leave us." Then, his aunt asked him to go back to Abu Hurairah to ask him about the reason. Thereupon, Abu Hurairah answered: "I heard the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) saying, "Mercy is not showed upon a group of people among them is someone who severs the ties of his kins.”

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Once, a wealthy man when traveling to the Sacred House in Mecca to perform Hajj (pilgrimage), deposited one hundred thousand Dinars to a trustworthy and righteous man until he returned from Arafat. Having stood on Arafat, he returned to Mecca to find that the man was dead. He asked the deceased's family for his money. But they knew nothing about the money. Accordingly, he explained the plight to the scholars of Mecca who then told him to approach the Zamzam well at midnight and then call upon the man.They said, "If he answered you the first time you called, he was among the people of Paradise." But the man went back to them after doing what they said with no response.

Thereupon, they said, "To Allah we belong and to Him is our return. The man might be of the people of Fire. Thus, you have to go to Yemen where there is a well-called Barhut. It is said that this well is at the mouth of the Hell, and call upon the man at midnight. Therein, if he is among the people of Fire he will answer you".

Having arrived in Yemen and approaching the well, he called upon the man and the man responded. He asked him about the wealth. He told him, "I had buried it in such and such a place. Thus, you could go there and dig to regain your wealth." Then, he asked him why he was in such a (horrible) place though people thought good of him? He said, "I had a poor sister whom I abandoned and did not treat her well. Thereby, Allah punished me because of her."

This is shown in the Prophet's saying,

"He who severs the ties of his family will not enter Paradise.” [Reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.]

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“What aspect of Islam is best?”-Hadith


‘Ammar (RA) said, “Whoever possesses three (characteristics) has attained eemaan: gives other people what is due to them, spreads the greeting (of salaam) to everyone, and spends [in the way of Allah] even when he is poor.”‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr narrated that a man asked the Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه و سلم, “What aspect of Islam is best?” He replied, “To feed people and to greet (with salaam) those you know and those you do not know.” [Sahih Bukhari, Chapter 2- The Book of Faith (Iman), Hadith 18]

 Imam Ibn Hajar’s Explanation in 'Fath Al Bari':

His saying, “Propagating the greetings (salaam) is part of Islam.”

Propagating the greeting includes doing so openly or secretly, which also coincides with his صلى الله عليه و سلم saying, “to those you know and those you don’t know.” 

His saying, “and spends [in the way of Allah] even when he is poor.”

In the narration, the word ‘Al-Iqtaar’ (الإقتار) means when he has little. Abu Al-Zanad Ibn Siraaj and others said that whoever combines between these three characteristics attains complete eemaan because a person who fulfils the rights (of people) will not fail to fulfill the rights of his lord, which are obligatory upon him, nor will he indulge in what has been prohibited.  Such a person has achieved the pillars of eemaan.  

  • Spreading the greetings (of salaam) is a part of good character and humbleness, and it brings about unity and love.

  • Giving charity in times of hardship proves a high level of generosity. The one who gives (charity) even though he himself is in need, is certain to give even more generously when his wealth increases.  Giving charity is broad; spending on one’s family in ways that are obligatory and/or preferred, and spending for one’s guest and visitors are part of charity. Giving in times of hardship proves trust in Allah and detachment from the worldly life. The wisdom and combination of short expressions carrying extensive and complete meaning are proof of the authenticity of this narration.